Thursday, January 24, 2013

The Right Thing @ The Wrong Time = The Wrong Thing

The right thing at the wrong time is the wrong thing.

Sometimes you meet someone who is so incredibly right for you, but ...

you're just not ready yet.

Maybe you have too many things on your "To-Do-Before-I-Settle-Down" list.

Maybe you love your job so much that you don't want to be distracted.

Maybe you just want to focus on yourself.

Whatever your "maybe" may be, there's no point in forcing a relationship with someone, even if they are someone who would be incredibly compatible to your crazy personality.

A relationship is an investment. It's an investment of yourself, and the availability to meet your partner halfway. Sometimes more.

It is an exertion of energy that should be natural, and unconditional, and satisfying.

If you're not ready to exert, you're not ready to be in a relationship.

Be honest from the start, and don't try and lie to yourself that you can "make it work." How can you make a partnership work if you aren't done working on yourself?

The right thing at the wrong time is the wrong thing.

Trust that there is meaning behind your timing.

Take advantage of the time meant for you and your "maybe's" Once fulfilled, you'll feel whole again. Completely whole. And completely ready.

The new will come. Believe it. In the right time, you'll ask why it didn't come sooner.

Then you'll remember, and smile.